I've met an interesting new woman at my workplace. I think I got her attention because when I was talking with other girls I'd see her looking at me.
Maybe I'm afraid because the last girl I was interested in seemed like she was interested in me but really was annoyed when I called her and always made excuses not to hang out.
If you have noticed this girl's eyes on you for a while, you should pretty much know that she is noticing you and she's probably thinking about you.
Just think about it, there are a lot of people at your workplace and if a person takes the time to glance at you, and ONLY you, you know that something is going on.
But I will warn you, before you say anything to her; you might want to study her a little bit. Just figure out what her style is and what kind of things she likes, music, or sports, you know, even look at the way she dresses.
From there, it's a good idea to see how she acts, and from learning that information, you can eventually gather up the courage to speak to her, in the way that's comfortable for you can her.
Bottom line: And I know for a fact that the shy and nervous behavior is the biggest obstacle. But here is a big tip. Asking questions is a powerful tool.
Asking questions will automatically solve your “ what should I say next ” problem. Instead of you doing all the talking, let her do it, and it'll let her know that you want to know about her. From whatever she says, you can just ask another question, and after she answers, then you can add in a little comment here and there! Try to get some info on her and her personality so you can prepare yourself if you ever encounter her.
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Power Words: Start and keep the conversation going
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