Any suggestions on how to further talk to a woman who I know through mutual friends. I want to get to know her or something to say to her. I was still pretty quiet and shy and we didn't talk to each other much.
I don't go to clubs, because you cannot see what the person looks like in the dark, or hear a word they are saying.
If you see her in the hallway, and if you're close enough, just poke her or wave to her or something and keep it casual to start things out.
If she looks like she wants you to come over and talk to her, just lazily walk over and ask her how things are with her, or stuff like what assignments are due. Things will eventually sprout for you two if you start out small.
It's really hard for 2 shy people to hook up because they usually only date the people that approach them. So if you can learn to be more outgoing it helps you meet the people you wouldn't have otherwise.
Since you both are friends with the same people that you should know each other by now and have no trouble carrying on a simple conversation, but somehow that just doesn't happen.
Bottom line: From her actions around you I'm sure that if you went up to her and started a conversation she would be thrilled and it would take a lot of pressure off of her.
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