I've been talking to this woman but never took courage to ask her out. I would say both of us would like it very much to take it to the next level. So is there anything I could do that night of the dance or say to get this all to come together?
It sounds so boring "Will you go out with me and I want to spice things up a bit.
If you both like to take it to the next level then there isn't much that you really need to do. It should happen naturally as you spend more and more time together. I think all you really need to worry about is to show her a good time at the dance.
I would practice my dancing skills if I were you rather than think of anything particular to say. Your hard part is basically over, getting her to say yes to the dance and thus an opportunity to impress her. Now it's all up to you to show her what a good guy you are.
I do not think that it's necessary for you to do anything spontaneous at the dance and feel that you have to ask her out there and then. You could show her a good time and then ask her out the following day or something.
You may find that once you two talk, you don't really hit it off, but at least you've done something friendly and made a little bit of a friend. If she seems totally uninterested, accept that and move on and meet other women.
If you go out for coffee and things go well, then think about asking her for a date. Make it an obvious, typical date, such as seeing a movie together. She'll get the picture.
Bottom line: However if you do want to do something crazy. The only thing that I can think off which is also "cost effective" is to write "Will you be mine" on either your chest or a white t-shirt underneath your tux.
Then when you take her to the door and are ready to leave you can open up your shirt and expose the message underneath. Now depending on how much fun she had it could either work for you or against you. For more relationship advice for women, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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