I enjoy interacting with other people, have no problem socializing on a platonic level, and found it very hard to approach a woman about anything more.
I think that initiating conversation with women comes as an impossible task for me. I can't be amusing or friendly or talk about anything meaningful. I'm always so incomprehensibly nervous that I freeze up.
What you would recommend me to do?
The hardest, and yet the most important first step to starting a relationship with someone is to find the right compatible person. Most single people would tell that. As well, she should be available, willing to commit to new relationship, and at least on basic level compatible personality type.
It takes some time to meet right person, but once you realize how easy it can be, you realize it can be done and wonder why you had so much trouble before.
If you can find the nerve, absolutely ask some of girl - friends out. Hopefully she will smile and say yes, however it is possible she declines either politely or rudely.
If this happens, don't let it shoot down any other inclination you may have to ask somebody out. You have to remember that one example does not reflect the whole. If she does say yes, which is entirely possible, I guarantee you will feel a whole world better for having done it.
Bottom line: Concerning the places to meet women this you will need to investigate this depending on where you live. Think of places where the ratio of women to men works in your favor e.g. a dance hall or mixed sporting club?
Keep on networking with people in and out work and you may find yourself being invited to outings and social events that could lead you to finding the right lady. Other than that keep your ears pricked and your eyes open. For more tips about starting a conversation with a girl, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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Lead conversation: Techniques for deepening communication
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