Whenever I walk by this girl my heart feels like it drops and my heart beats sooo much faster. I'm a nice, generous, calm guy as other girls have said. I have asked girls out way out of my league with out a problem.
One of my friends knows her and told me not to ask her out blatantly which is the cause of my problem. I am not a good friend of hers and also I don't really have a ticket in to talk to her. She walks by like every morning while I'm at my locker.
I keep trying to make myself ask her out but it never build up enough courage when the time actually comes.
Most guys go through life saying "what if". If you wait around some other guy who is cool and collected will ask her out. Okay AIM is awesome - well doesn't always work out when you get older not to patronize you but I love AIM even still.
It lets you flirt and say stuff but if you want to be different I say pick up the phone and call her after you ask her for her number over AIM. Girls can be weird and are taught to hide how they feel about you so that you can't tell because she is just as worried about the guy not reciprocating.
So get on AIM ask her what is up? Strike up the conversation with her. Say she likes soccer than stay on top of it and say "would like to watch you play sometime so I can laugh when you don't score" TEASE her.
Make sure you go up to her when you see her and say hi. Look her in the eye and smile. Then say you have to go which you do. Casually ask her to go grab food and a movie... the key is to do it in a very confident manner. She says she is busy - no problem. People get busy.
Bottom line: So basically just make your way in and talk to her you will get a feel for her needs and interest and ask her friends for these things. You will do great just remember she is just a girl and just as nervous as you are around her she could be the same.
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