I really like this woman at work she is really hot. But I don't think she likes me. I am nice to her but I can't recognize any signs of interest on her part.
I don't want to ask her out because I might get rejected or something. And also I have never asked a girl out.
Asking a woman out is never easy, however you have to start somewhere if you want to be with someone. If you don't ask then you don't really get so in this regards, you will have to put yourself out there to meet people and push that barrier of yours.
It's true that there is a fifty percent chance that she will say no but there is also a fifty percent chance that she will say yes. There is always that fear of rejection when you are about to approach someone but it is a risk worth taking because you have more to gain then loose.
You need to try some way of communication to test the water. You want to hold eye contact with a woman during conversation, but you can also initiate an encounter by using eye contact. Flirting can be in words, or with subtle body language such as touches, prolonged eye contact etc.
If you're too shy to walk up to a girl and start a conversation, try this instead - look her in the eyes, hold you eye contact until she "catches you looking", then KEEP holding the eye contact for a few more seconds, then smile at her. Do that one or more times after that again and judge her reaction. If she smiles back or looks down, then she's interested. If she just stares at you blankly, then she's not interested.
Bottom line: Sure it bad to be rejected but it's only temporary and not the end of the world. Have belief in yourself in that you are someone worth meeting and even though she might not be the right one for you now, eventually you will meet someone who will return your affections.
Before you rule this one out however, or that you think that she hates you try to find out for sure by talking to her whenever the opportunity presents itself. If you can befriend her beforehand then this might make things easier in asking her out later on. For more tips about chatting up women and making initial acquaintances, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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