I met this girl, and I guess that it was like love at first sight. Yet it's my first time asking a girl out. So I'm afraid I'll run out of conversation topics, and maybe look wimpy. IS there any way to boost my self confidence with girls?
If only I was not so concerned with my male performance with women I could have expressed myself the way I do it with my friends. And most people who know me would say I'm honest and open personality.
I've had relationships that started as friendships. The point of making friends is that if you are the kind of person who makes friends easily, you are attractive in some way. If you are attractive, you will more easily find someone who is interested in more than "just friends".
Making friends is good practice for overcoming shyness for when you do meet someone with whom there is romance.
You can still be friends but perhaps you should hold back initiating any exclusive activities with her. I.e. going out just by yourselves and only with friends. If she calls you then fine go meet somewhere with another friend or as a group.
If she has the same strong feelings about you then you might want to let her know about your concerns.
Bottom line: Perhaps she will agree to you both being friends for now. If she doesn't want to wait until later on and decides to pursue you instead then try to handle the situation as best as you can. You are only human.
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