I speak from the following backgrounds: For two years I've been making eye contact and smiling at practically every cute female, doing so with confidence. Usually the female just smiles back in a friendly way.
Recently I've been striking up conversations with various females whom I don't know. In the past I've done this too within school, but to a more limited extent. Nowadays it's been having an increasing frequency, although often I don't have the guts. Yet I can't deepen communication with women.
Before you assume that you have a problem try to find out first if she is happy with the relationship. If she is happy the way that it is then perhaps you can just chill and enjoy her company.
If she is unhappy then perhaps you can find out what the problem is and then both of you can try to figure out how to make your relationship better.
Considering that you say that your relationship is becoming more serious you should not have a problem just having a deep and meaningful conversation with her and asking her directly.
If nothing appears to be wrong and she says that she is happy just make her aware to communicate her feelings to you if she does feel that things aren't going so well. Then re-emphasize how much you like/love her and just leave it at that.
Bottom line: If your girlfriend is not a big verbal communicator take note of her body language and the way that she interacts with you non-verbally to determine if she is happy / unhappy or indifferent.
It can be hard to grasp this now but speaking from those backgrounds, it really is not a big deal as long as you don't make a big deal out of it. In other words, other people only make a big deal out of it if you do. For more tips about deepening communication with women, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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