I got a lot of compliments from a woman I see on a daily basis. Yet I'm looking for a way to initiate conversation and see if there will be something more out of this casual conversation.
One day she said that it doesn't matter how old you are, it's what you LOOK LIKE that counts around here. She compliments my clothing. This woman is 20 years YOUNGER than me and extremely attractive. However I'm married. I find myself looking forward to meeting her, so what do I do?
First, hats off to you for looking great about yourself! In answer to your question "what do I do?". Nothing. Because you are married. I understand your wife might neglect you, but that doesn't make you a single man.
You have caught this younger woman's eye, and it would make any 50 or 50+ man feel desirable and maybe even fantasize about this attractive young admirer.
If you fantasize, you are not hurting anybody, that is, you are not cheating on your wife. You are not calling this woman, and neither are you going out with her.
If you look forward to seeing her again, it is easy to see why. Compliments boost all of our self-esteem, especially when we are not getting it from our own companion. The fact that she is younger is what makes you tremble.
Bottom line: I would say to you: enjoy this woman's attention, but from a distance. Not to burst your bubble, but she may do this to several men; perhaps this is just his style of flirting.
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