I got attracted to a girl who's my close friend for a long time. Lately I've been making moves and she hasn't rejected. I've never asked her out but I have asked her out really but we've had some talks. We are about to go on different universities soon and probably split up.
If we are at movies she will point her legs toward me and lean in my direction if we are driving in the car she will put her arm around my backrest. She's fully comfortable with me touching her now well except for anything that resembles something relationship like. Do you think she is actually interested and is waiting for me to make myself into the right character or is she genuinely not interested and just wants to be friends?
Taking into account that you are both headed to different universities shortly would really test your relationship should you happen to get together before then.
You both will be meeting a whole bunch of new people and I'm sure that some of these will play quite a special role in your lives.
Women are flattered by the interest and attention a potential suitor gives them, even when they're not interested in a relationship. Alternatively you can also think of it as since you are going to different university's then perhaps you should give it a go just to see whether anything can happen or not.
I mean what is there to loose right? Since you say that you cannot be friends with her then you may want to risk it.
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This approach is the safest, and I think is the most suitable for 2 really close friends.
If you're doing this to relieve your feelings and to save the friendship between you two, then give it a go, it's worth a shot. If she is really as close to you, things will patch up if they go wrong. For more tips about approaching and starting intimacy with a close female friend, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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