I am attracted to a girl who seems to share same emotions. The date ended very awkwardly. I thought I was lost. But a few days later she called me up and wanted to hang out with me and we had a fairly good time doing that, now iv asked her out again to do the classic date: dinner and a movie.
I know I should take charge and be aggressive, but I don't like her to be uncomfortable. I'm merely trying to hold her hand.
I wouldn't be surprised that some girls might have appreciated your arms around them on previous dates but every girl is different and you should be mindful to note that not every girl wants to be touched on a first date.
It sounds like this girl prefers to take things slowly.
In that she called you a few days later it seems like that she has forgiven you for your previous indiscretions and you now have another chance with her.
Forget about what happened on the previous date and consider it a fresh start. Be your friendly self with her but do not touch her unless she gives you the okay to do so. If unsure just ask if you can hold her hands.
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