I've introduced attractive woman at workplace. I'm about to ask her out on a lunch. I know it is difficult to tell what she might be thinking / feeling. But, the moment we had when was smiling and looking in each other's eyes was unusual.
I've never had an experience like it when two people were just being polite. I had a huge grin, and this woman, who doesn't usually even give big smiles, had a really big smile and her eyes were moving as she was looking at me. I'm biased and want to believe there could be a spark.
I think that you should follow your gut instinct in pursuing her. You do not necessarily have to ask her out right away but at least contact her so that you can get a connection going.
Right at this moment she has no indication that you are interested in her and the longer you wait the more difficult it could get later on.
Contacting her for a casual work lunch is a good idea because it's just a friendly act, and does not imply romantic involvement.
Why flirt with friends? Partly so that you get practice, partly to convince yourself that these items really are just friendly if taken in isolation, and partly because your friends might like you better.
Bottom line: All I can really say is contact her a.s.a.p. so that you can work on that small platform that you had back then.
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