I've been secretly in love with a woman. After I met her and fell in love, my best friend wins her over. He is still now her boyfriend. On an occasion she told me “ I miss you ” several times, and asked me to hug her.
It seems that there is still passion between two of us, although she's actually dating my friend. I'm wondering if this is a sign that she secretly loves me but doesn't want to admit it...or not?
Ask yourself how much you value your friendship with your friend. Unless she decides to break it off cleanly with him, you might be accused of plotting against their relationship.
Then you will have a lot of heartache to deal with if he finds out that you and her have been holding your own secret party.
To this extent have a casual chat to him about how he feels about her as well as have a quiet word with her on how she feels about you before you decide to make your next move.
It could be the case that you will wait until the relationship has concluded on it's own and/or she will break it off with him whereupon after a while will give you the ability to ask her out then.
Bottom line: Do not waste your time with women who seem to be willing to cheat on their boyfriend. What do you think will happen when you become her boyfriend?
I am sure you are attractive, intelligent and can meet and make new friends. Go for it, and leave both of them alone. If you have another secret, keep it to yourself. For more tips about winning a woman back, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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