I've been seeing this girl for a month. I was a gentleman, and kept a distance form the beginning. After words she made up some excuse for me to try and kiss her on the lips. I felt like she wanted more. So when i got home, I saw her online. And me being the fool that I am, I asked her out online.
And she told me, it's so sudden and I can't make a decision that fast. First lets be friends. And we'll see what happens from there.
Taking into consideration that you have only known each other for a month and that you went to the movies and had a bit of a make out session afterwards followed by an e-mail of do you want to be my girlfriend sounds like quite a lot for a girl to digest in one night.
If you think about it her reaction as well as yours to the night was quite normal.
The reason that she initially said no in the car was probably because she did not know how far you wanted to go, according to her you could have just wanted to jump her bones.
That you managed to control your urges and say enough for tonight did you probably a world of good in her agenda. It helps if you start flirting and courting before you decide that this woman is the only woman in the world for you.
Bottom line: I would not feel badly about contacting her afterwards. You were after all coming down from an euphoric high from the date and she did the sensible thing in saying I enjoyed the night out but let's just slow it down a bit before we crash at this speed.
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