I cannot seem to get a girlfriend, I just want some one to spend time with and well, I have asked out many girls, but all said no.
Any way I want to attract a female and I wont settle for less than I am worth. And well what can I do to get the girls?
It sounds to me that you know exactly want you want, you're dreaming rather realistic about being in a relationship with someone. Sometimes, what you don't always expects happens to you anyway, and then you're felt constricted about everything feeling as though you wanted to commitment to someone.
So if you cannot get a girl now, do not fret. You WILL get girls. You should just learn and get ready for when the relationships do come along.
There's nothing wrong with you, but remember that there aren't allot of girls that are going to make a commitment with you. This has nothing to do with you though... It just as to do with the fact that they really don't know what they want neither!
They want to experience and experiment with dating different guys and many of them, sometimes all at once. It's important to a girl to find that perfect guy. BUT! Don't try to be someone that your not...They'll never attract you if you do.
Bottom line: Be patient, don't try so hard and have faith that everything turns out the exact way that it's suppose to. Learn from women. I became their friends, learned from the mistakes their boyfriends made, and got the advice from them. Just listen to them; if you can listen to women, they will love you.
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