I need some advice on wining a girl's love. I've met a stunning girl and we hit it off instantly. I've asked her out for a date and that's when I told her about my feelings for her.
She told me that she had a past relationship that was really troubled which I interpret as I need to put in more effort! But she did say it straight that she likes me, she enjoys my company and thought I'm rather cute. Since then, I've been trying hard to win her feelings over. I've sent her flowers, taking her out on romantic dinners, sending random romantic messages and even baking her cookies. I've been out of the game so long I just don't know what to do anymore.
Had she been someone who was less accommodating (to put it mildly) then she could have easily put a stop to it all and not have seen you anymore.
From your perspective, I do not think that you really need to do or find anything else to impress her.
I think that she has a very good understanding on how much that you like her and that it is really up to her now, when and if she decides to consider you as a boyfriend.
I know that this might be difficult for you to do but you could probably wind down or save your courtship of her until such time as she has officially declared that she is interested in being your girlfriend.
Bottom line: Right at this moment, building a good rapport with her emotionally/mentally would serve you better than any particular courtship item or thing that you can get/make for her.
For the moment, enjoy her company and be patient but alert to her feelings and emotions. Hang in there and I'm sure that when she is ready that you will be a prime candidate to be her boyfriend. For more tips about building a good rapport with a woman, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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